help

i remember when i was in ns.
and some of us decided to go to the gym to train up.
and while training, one of the regulars came in.
he said "wah, this is good. you guys really working hard. but then, the ones that really need the help aren't here."

i recalled hearing this before in school, when we had remedials and supplementary classes. and those who turned up were those who didnt really need it.
and my teacher said the same thing. "those who need the help are the ones that dont come."

and now, even at the stage of adulthood, i realise that such a trait still exists, that some people still deny that they need help, when they need it the most.

i only have this to say to such people:
"good luck in life. you'll need it."

ta.